Change can be scary, not to mention difficult. However when it comes to changing eating habits, while it takes some patience and perseverance it can be done.
The best place to start is to make a commitment to yourself, not to just lose weight or look better or more attractive, but to feel and be healthier. One fact remains, none can do this for you. And while you can acknowledge the fact it might be a bit difficult to cut down on junk food or the sheer amount of food that has led you to pile up the pounds, it is important to know it in your hearts of hearts that it can be done. This might seem like its given, however it will give you a right state of mind of setting realistic expectation, instead of hard-to-reach goals.
Promise yourself there will not be scolding or guilt trips, if you fall off the wagon, jump right back on. Berating yourself will do more damage then good in the long run and you are in this for the long haul.
Small changes are the best way to start on a good path. Eating a salad might be what you are ready for at the moment. One step at the time, little by little and before you know it you will be on the route to a completely new, healthy lifestyle.
And while changing eating habits means to cut down on calories, it does not necessarily have to mean food that is bland and without taste. It would be wise to experiment, food should be enjoyed, and it is not meant to be a dreaded chore, look for variety, boredom might lead to overeating as well.
There are some simple steps that can lead you to healthier eating habits.
Skipping meals is not an option. Eating regularly will prevent food cravings and binges. Also if you are cooking for yourself only, make single potions and eat what is on your plate. It might not be a bad idea to also use smaller plates; it will make you think of plenty, rather then make you feeling deprived.
Grocery shopping should not be done on an empty stomach, as chips will look extremely alluring when you are hungry. Shopping list is another good idea, as it will help you stay focused on the healthy foods rather then anything else that you might and might not crave.
Do not give up on yourself, it can be done.